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Posted by Susan47 on April 24, 2005, at 14:36:04
In reply to ((((((Alex)))))) ((((((Susan)))))) » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on April 23, 2005, at 22:41:40
Oh man, Damos, I'm all hot now. And no drugs today either. Whew-hew.
Posted by Susan47 on April 24, 2005, at 14:36:38
In reply to Re: ((((((Alex)))))) ((((((Susan)))))), posted by anastasia56 on April 23, 2005, at 23:30:59
I know. We should really get to know Damos better. We could start a group of friends :-)
Posted by Susan47 on April 24, 2005, at 14:39:58
In reply to Re: And... » alexandra_k, posted by 10derHeart on April 24, 2005, at 0:05:24
I'm currently at 1.5 years. I've gone longer before. But it isn't easy. It isn't easy when I'm feeling sexually expressive.
Posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 18:51:17
In reply to Re: ((((((Alex)))))) ((((((Susan)))))) » anastasia56, posted by Susan47 on April 24, 2005, at 14:36:38
> I know. We should really get to know Damos better. We could start a group of friends :-)
Gosh, I really don't know what to say.
Posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 18:53:26
In reply to Re: ((((((Alex)))))) ((((((Susan)))))) » Damos, posted by Susan47 on April 24, 2005, at 14:36:04
Holy guacomole! I might just nip up to the supermarket and stand in their cool room for a bit, 48 hours ought to do it ;-)
Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 19:07:34
In reply to Re: ((((((Alex)))))) ((((((Susan)))))) » Susan47, posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 18:53:26
I'm sure me and Susan can bring you out of your shell ;-)
Posted by anastasia56 on April 24, 2005, at 19:08:31
In reply to Re: ((((((Alex)))))) ((((((Susan)))))) » Susan47, posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 18:53:26
Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 19:19:44
In reply to hmmmm...what to do what to do... (nm) » Damos, posted by anastasia56 on April 24, 2005, at 19:08:31
You
RUN LIKE HELL!!!
Mwah ha ha!
Posted by anastasia56 on April 24, 2005, at 19:35:04
In reply to Re: May I suggest » anastasia56, posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 19:19:44
Posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 20:06:31
In reply to Re: Te he he » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 19:07:34
I don't doubt that for a second.
Posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 20:11:59
In reply to Re: May I suggest » anastasia56, posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 19:19:44
Puppy jumped I laughed so loud. It's so nice to have the house all to myself for a change and have a work laptop that actually works so I can talk to you guys.
There's only one major problem with the cool room - shrinkge. Mind you, I could probably register the little guy as long term unemployed and get some sort of benefit!
Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:11:11
In reply to Re: Te he he » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 20:06:31
Well you'll have to come out of the fridge then ;-)
Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:13:32
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 20:11:59
> Puppy jumped I laughed so loud.
Yay! Puppy. Give Sarah a big hug from me, ok? Do you have any pictures of her? I'd love it if you could email me one.
>It's so nice to have the house all to myself for a change and have a work laptop that actually works so I can talk to you guys.
:-)
Yay. Its a holiday!
(I don't know if we are supposed to feel happy about that on ANZAC day)
But...
Yay. Its a holiday!
(Not that I have done anything for weeks now...)
> Mind you, I could probably register the little guy as long term unemployed and get some sort of benefit!HA! Oh Damos that made me laugh!
Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:17:38
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:13:32
Posted by Susan47 on April 24, 2005, at 21:27:14
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:13:32
She's here, seconding Alexandra's Mwah-ha-ha!
Posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 21:29:21
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:13:32
> > Puppy jumped I laughed so loud.
>
> Yay! Puppy. Give Sarah a big hug from me, ok? Do you have any pictures of her? I'd love it if you could email me one.I absolutely will. Don't tell but I put a blanket up on the lounge last night so she could sit up there with me and watch telly. I'm sure I've got a bunch, just drop me a note to my address (I think I babblemailed it to you) and I'll send some over.
> >It's so nice to have the house all to myself for a change and have a work laptop that actually works so I can talk to you guys.
>
> :-)
> Yay. Its a holiday!
You have no idea.
> (I don't know if we are supposed to feel happy about that on ANZAC day)
> But...
> Yay. Its a holiday!
> (Not that I have done anything for weeks now...)
>
> > Mind you, I could probably register the little guy as long term unemployed and get some sort of benefit!
>
> HA! Oh Damos that made me laugh!
Yay!!!! that's more like it.
>
>
Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:32:35
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha, posted by Susan47 on April 24, 2005, at 21:27:14
Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:34:14
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 21:29:21
> I absolutely will. Don't tell but I put a blanket up on the lounge last night so she could sit up there with me and watch telly.
:-)
Aw, you are so sweet.>I'm sure I've got a bunch, just drop me a note to my address (I think I babblemailed it to you) and I'll send some over.
Ok. I'll try. Otherwise I'll babblemail you my address.
> > HA! Oh Damos that made me laugh!
> Yay!!!! that's more like it.:-)
You are a riot!
Posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 22:17:35
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » Damos, posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:34:14
> Aw, you are so sweet.
Shhhh, I can't have you spreading unfounded rumours like that, they'll ruin my self image :-)> You are a riot!
No, no you must have me confused with another Damos. I'm Damos the human sedative, guaranteed to put anyone to sleep with 5 minutes of contact =0)
Posted by sunny10 on April 25, 2005, at 8:56:03
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 22:17:35
might I presume to suggest that it is not actually the sex or sex chemical reaction that you people are "missing with regret", but the chemical that is released by close INTIMACY?
I tried to do what Alex has (and is thinking about maybe doing again). Doing that accomplished one of two terrible things for ME (maybe she is just much more mature than I....almost everyone seems to be...)
1) I felt like I was not worth a relationship (and this type of non-relationship simply bolstered my low opinion of myself. OR
2) I fell in love with the closeness that only ever existed in my mind... we'd start out as "friends with benefits", progress to affection and "sexually intimacy", and then with the affection chemicals being released, I would fall in love with them even though "I Knew" they were unavailable to me in one way or another and we'd never wind up together and my heart would be broken again, and my fear of abandonment would be realized as being abandoned again...Fill one hand with wishes and the other with sh*t and see which one fills up first, right?!? We'll just have to rely on our friendships here on Babble until we find that in our own hometowns... I feel so lucky to have "met" you guys; it feels almost selfish to hope for more!!
XOXOXOXOX,
sunny10
Posted by damos on April 25, 2005, at 21:17:40
In reply to Re: For the sexually inactive..., posted by sunny10 on April 25, 2005, at 8:56:03
You feel free to presume away.
There is a lot of truth and honesty in what you said. That hard afterwards realisation stuff that you've just gotta try to remember till next time you see yourself going there all over again.
... I feel so lucky to have "met" you guys; it feels almost selfish to hope for more!!
Ditto that.
>
> XOXOXOXOX,
> sunny10Big hugs and kisses right back atya sunny.
Posted by 10derHeart on April 26, 2005, at 0:13:14
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on April 24, 2005, at 22:17:35
>> I'm Damos the human sedative, guaranteed to put anyone to sleep with 5 minutes of contact =0)
I highly doubt that. I'm quite, VERY wide awake.
I like this thread. Maybe too much.
Oh dear. (yikes!)
Posted by alexandra_k on April 26, 2005, at 0:28:30
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » Damos, posted by 10derHeart on April 26, 2005, at 0:13:14
Posted by sunny10 on April 26, 2005, at 12:40:37
In reply to Re: May I suggest -Mwah ha ha » Damos, posted by 10derHeart on April 26, 2005, at 0:13:14
Posted by sunny10 on April 26, 2005, at 12:43:44
In reply to Re: For the sexually inactive... » sunny10, posted by damos on April 25, 2005, at 21:17:40
yeah, I've been there so many times that I have had to change my concept of my intelligence...
A high IQ certainly didn't make me a fast study on this subject...I had to learn THAT one over and over and over... sigh...
For some reason, I always had to learn the hard way...
XOXOX
sunny10
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