Psycho-Babble Relationships Thread 392768

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I am keening

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 19, 2004, at 21:21:41

I am keening
my head back and letting the full throated sound come
I miss you
strange how our lovely connection is severed
silly me, why did I think it would be any different
you were clear on how I had messed up
our sharing was so uplifting
undulating with the grief
I let my throat feel the vibration of this lament
my feelings are on overload
I am sad
so it is over
so I must let go
you are gone to me
our connection failing
union of the mind and spirit
I miss you
Jai

 

Re: I am keening

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 21, 2004, at 21:38:00

In reply to I am keening, posted by Jai Narayan on September 19, 2004, at 21:21:41

my god in the presence of all this talk I am in so much pain.
I guess it's not so important.
i am not important to all of you.
Wow, I had no idea I was so trival.
So trival.

 

Re: I am keening -- Trivial? not at all! » Jai Narayan

Posted by 64bowtie on September 22, 2004, at 13:58:53

In reply to Re: I am keening, posted by Jai Narayan on September 21, 2004, at 21:38:00

Jai,

> Wow, I had no idea I was so trival.
> So trival.

You aren't trivial to me while you are alive....

....you aren't trivial at all to me.

Rod

 

Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan

Posted by partlycloudy on September 22, 2004, at 14:26:00

In reply to I am keening, posted by Jai Narayan on September 19, 2004, at 21:21:41

Jai, I did not know how to respond to your post, but I don't mean to be unsupportive. You have been an unwavering source of support for me so many times - I am so sorry.
Can you share what is so troubling right now?
pc

 

Re: I am keening

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 22, 2004, at 20:35:47

In reply to Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan, posted by partlycloudy on September 22, 2004, at 14:26:00

I will kick it down a couple of notches....sorry I was a hurting kinda gal recently. But my pain is on the wane. I needed a soft shoulder to cry on but now I feel really more settled down.
Everything changes and sometimes I resist change. But by god, my life changes inspite of me.
thank you both for responding. You both are the best.
I will move on.
But I will not forget your kindness.
thanks

 

Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan

Posted by saw on September 23, 2004, at 2:01:41

In reply to Re: I am keening, posted by Jai Narayan on September 22, 2004, at 20:35:47

I will not forget your kindness either Jai. You were the very first person to respond to my first ever post a couple of months ago. You said "Welcome Sabrina" and I felt so good that day.

Sabrina

 

Sabrina, thanks...this is why I am so hooked on PB (nm)

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 23, 2004, at 13:55:20

In reply to Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan, posted by saw on September 23, 2004, at 2:01:41

 

keening jai n

Posted by just plain jane on September 23, 2004, at 18:14:17

In reply to Sabrina, thanks...this is why I am so hooked on PB (nm), posted by Jai Narayan on September 23, 2004, at 13:55:20

I can only assume you have reached the end of your 17 year relationship...?
Whether that is it or not, your pain is etching on me.

 

Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan

Posted by gardenergirl on September 23, 2004, at 19:08:25

In reply to Re: I am keening, posted by Jai Narayan on September 21, 2004, at 21:38:00

Jai,
I have to admit, I had a similar reaction as pc did...I just didn't know what to say. Perhaps it was the intensity of your pain coming through. I could feel it, but I guess it was confusing for me without context. And you certainly do not have to disclose. I was actually thinking about this yesterday. Why did I need to know more about why you were hurting before offering comfort? I wish I knew. It feels judgemental of me, and I don't like it.

So please accept my belated expression of caring. I wish you peace and beauty, and I'm sending healing light out to you.

(((Jai)))

gg

 

pain has no context..it's universal..gg thanks (nm)

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 23, 2004, at 20:54:20

In reply to Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan, posted by gardenergirl on September 23, 2004, at 19:08:25

 

just plain jane, it was only a passing pain...:*) (nm)

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 23, 2004, at 20:56:40

In reply to keening jai n, posted by just plain jane on September 23, 2004, at 18:14:17

 

Re: I am keening

Posted by JimP on September 28, 2004, at 8:22:38

In reply to Re: I am keening, posted by Jai Narayan on September 21, 2004, at 21:38:00

Nothing lasts forever, eh?
JimP

 

Re: I am keening

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 28, 2004, at 15:41:07

In reply to Re: I am keening, posted by JimP on September 28, 2004, at 8:22:38

Nothing lasts forever, eh?

**that is so wicked funny. thanks for the laugh.
Jai

 

Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan

Posted by Atticus on September 29, 2004, at 14:40:51

In reply to Re: I am keening, posted by Jai Narayan on September 28, 2004, at 15:41:07

"Well, everything dies, baby,
That's a fact,
But maybe everything that dies
Will someday come back."
- Bruce Springsteen, "Atlantic City"

 

Re: I am keening

Posted by Jai Narayan on September 29, 2004, at 14:53:14

In reply to Re: I am keening » Jai Narayan, posted by Atticus on September 29, 2004, at 14:40:51

or be reborn anew.
To a better life?
I know I am happy now.
life seems good.
I still miss this person and my connection.
If he is ever open to reconnecting I am open.

I have learned some important lessons.
: * )
Jai
the woman with the nice **s


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