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Posted by Bedrock on December 17, 2004, at 13:19:19
Hi Ada,
I am new to this site, but have read some of your posts and have been very touched by them. I just wanted to share a song that I have found very cathartic for a broken heart. I put the lyrics in the message, but much of the song's beauty is in the vocals - his voice escalates to such a strong ache by the end. I felt it was one of the better songs for capturing that type of pain.
Heart is out to you,
Bedrock
Jeff Buckley
Grace (1994)
Lover, You Should've Come OverLooking out the door i see the rain fall upon the funeral mourners
Parading in a wake of sad relations as their shoes fill up with water
And maybe i'm too young to keep good love from going wrong
But tonight you're on my mind so you never knowWhen i'm broken down and hungry for your love with no way to feed it
Where are you tonight, child you know how much i need it
Too young to hold on and too old to just break free and runSometimes a man gets carried away, when he feels like he should be having his fun
And much too blind to see the damage he's done
Sometimes a man must awake to find that really, he has no-oneSo i'll wait for you... and i'll burn
Will I ever see your sweet return
Oh will I ever learnOh lover, you should've come over
'Cause it's not too lateLonely is the room, the bed is made, the open window lets the rain in
Burning in the corner is the only one who dreams he had you with him
My body turns and yearns for a sleep that will never comeIt's never over, my kingdom for a kiss upon her shoulder
It's never over, all my riches for her smiles when i slept so soft against her
It's never over, all my blood for the sweetness of her laughter
It's never over, she's the tear that hangs inside my soul foreverWell maybe i'm just too young
To keep good love from going wrongOh... lover, you should've come over
'Cause it's not too lateWell I feel too young to hold on
And i'm much too old to break free and run
Too deaf, dumb, and blind to see the damage i've done
Sweet lover, you should've come over
Oh, love well i'm waiting for youLover, you should've come over
'Cause it's not too late
Posted by AdaGrace on December 17, 2004, at 16:41:09
In reply to A song for AdaGrace, posted by Bedrock on December 17, 2004, at 13:19:19
I am very touched by this post, and am actually wordless in regards of what to say. You looked at me and found the words that fit perfectly.
Ada, misting over again, Grace
Posted by Bedrock on December 18, 2004, at 7:49:23
In reply to Re: A song for AdaGrace » Bedrock, posted by AdaGrace on December 17, 2004, at 16:41:09
I am glad it resonated with you. I admire your openness on these boards, it makes your personality really come through. Wish I could do that, but for now the anxiety inhibits me too much :(
Bedrock
Posted by AdaGrace on December 19, 2004, at 13:15:54
In reply to Re: A song for AdaGrace » AdaGrace, posted by Bedrock on December 18, 2004, at 7:49:23
My openness really is not a good thing, I always say too much, reveal too much and although it helps my self provoked chatting therapy, it also opens me up for abuse (not here - in other internet or r/t situations. That which I ask for tends to come back full fold. Susan is right. I am doing this to myself for punishment. As if I realize I deserve to be treated the way I am by men and therefore, seek them out over and over and over again.
Posted by justyourlaugh on December 21, 2004, at 23:56:06
In reply to Re: A song for AdaGrace, posted by AdaGrace on December 19, 2004, at 13:15:54
if you put yourself on the top of your lists...
you will find others will too..
"dr phill moment brought to you by"....
sunlight..get dirty.
j
Posted by AdaGrace on December 22, 2004, at 15:23:38
In reply to Re: A song for AdaGrace, posted by justyourlaugh on December 21, 2004, at 23:56:06
It all sounds easier to say and hear than to do.
I'm a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a working class stiff, and after all that, I am a dishwasher, cook, housekeeper, chauffer, cheif breadwinner, and when that is all done, I am supposed to be a sex goddess who doesn't feel.I'm just worn out in this life. Simply worn out. There are more presents under my tree for everyone than there are nice things to say about me.
Ada
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