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Posted by eugenia on December 25, 2004, at 12:52:56
Hi:
Did anyone on this board ever reunite and get remarried to an ex?
I am contemplating and I am confused, so I am turning to you guys.
Details in a nutshell--left this guy because I thought I wasn't in love. Realized that though I wasn't in love, I love him. There are a lot of awful people in NYC! He is not one of them. he still wants me back.
Anybody relate?
Thanks!
Posted by ghost on December 25, 2004, at 18:46:48
In reply to getting back together with ex-spouse, posted by eugenia on December 25, 2004, at 12:52:56
i got back with my ex.
i never thought i'd do it... always said when i walked away, i'd walk away forever... but this time i was wrong.
if it feels right, go for it.
ghost
Posted by eugenia on December 26, 2004, at 8:11:43
In reply to Re: getting back together with ex-spouse, posted by ghost on December 25, 2004, at 18:46:48
Thanks for replying ghost. Would you mind telling me why you left your ex the first time?
And are you a female or a male?
I heard that most divorces are initiated by the woman. It was true in my case.
Posted by ghost on December 26, 2004, at 12:54:38
In reply to Re: getting back together with ex-spouse, posted by eugenia on December 26, 2004, at 8:11:43
> Thanks for replying ghost. Would you mind telling me why you left your ex the first time?
> And are you a female or a male?
> I heard that most divorces are initiated by the woman. It was true in my case.I am female and this relationship was with a female. At the time, she had a lot of anxiety problems she wasnt getting the proper care for, my own mental health was going downhill, and i was just unhappy with my life. we were in college together, and when we graduated, i ran away to a graduate school 1600 miles away to try to escape things. we kept in contact, but when we met up one last time before i got a job a few months ago, i realised how much i missed her and wanted her back.
incidentally, i did initiate a divorce from a man i was married to, but i've never noticed any gender-dominance in divorce proceedings. but then again, i don't have much experience, either :)
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