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Posted by mmcconathy on February 26, 2005, at 0:59:15
Listen, i can do nothing with my psychiatrist, she controls the session, will refuse treatments and has does nothing during this mental crisis.
I've already declared if i go insane, i go insane, i cannot do anything, she gets aggrevated and yells if i even try to discuss this with her.
I cannot take, i am slipping to everything, she has tried to sabotage my defenses and sense of drive to keep me to her self and stay in misery, she always has told me "your not ready" and i have had ENOUGH!
If i have to move on the steet for a temporary period, fine, until i can recoop my life to self-support, she is influenced helplessness, i love my mom, but she has done this to quench her selfish desire to keep me to her self.
My dad is not a person to look forward to (divorced), he has high income, but his bitterness is on the opposite end, im sorry but im getting off topic.
I need to know when im 18, if i can see my doctor, nuerologist, and therpist, alone,
she said no, there is no way becuase im on her insurance, and she would not let me.
When i turn 18, its over, i will do any, live, go any where to get away from this woman.
I am very worried of tumor, or abnormalies which we planned to have MRI, she has done nothing, and yells at me when i ask her about it.
When i am planted and stable, many years she will meet a court order to her lawsuit and another slap of a Restraining order directly making it clear she will not come near or contact my kids, she will not corrupt them i will make it a point she will pay.
Please help, your advice is my future.
Matt
Posted by Sebastian on February 26, 2005, at 0:59:15
In reply to How do i get away from my mom/ medical issues.., posted by mmcconathy on February 25, 2005, at 19:51:24
They want you to change your mind. Stop thinking the way you do and hope it goes away. My doc did this when I was very angry. He put me on more and more meds and refused to listen or even acknolige half of what I was saying. He did not care. That was the end of it. I try to forget, its hard though.
Posted by mmcconathy on February 26, 2005, at 0:59:15
In reply to How do i get away from my mom/ medical issues.., posted by mmcconathy on February 25, 2005, at 19:51:24
"Listen, i can do nothing with my psychiatrist, she controls the session, will refuse treatments and has does nothing during this mental crisis."
i ment to say "listen, i can do nothing iwth my psychiatrist, becuase my mom controls the whole session."
Im not going to let people control my life, well im not going to deal with it, im going to DO SOMETHING@
Sorry maybe thats why there was noone responding to this post
Posted by Phillipa on February 26, 2005, at 0:59:15
In reply to Re: i am sorry, there was a writing error/ read re, posted by mmcconathy on February 25, 2005, at 22:49:07
Matt, Listen, you Do have Rights! Do you hear me? If you go to the hospital you can request a new psychiatrist, and they will give you one. You need help, and you need it now. You are too young to go through this alone. If I were there I would make sure you got the proper tx as I know the system as I have worked in it. You have rights. People do care. Those that work in psych are there because they are trained to help people with difficult problems like yours. Call a crisis line and talk with them. They will listen, and help you go where you can be helped. Keep Posting us. Fondly, Phillipa XX
Posted by Phillipa on February 26, 2005, at 11:04:00
In reply to Re: How do i get away from my mom/ medical issues.., posted by Sebastian on February 25, 2005, at 22:33:24
Matt, I still say you need someone else to talk with. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by ed_uk on February 26, 2005, at 12:54:53
In reply to How do i get away from my mom/ medical issues.., posted by mmcconathy on February 25, 2005, at 19:51:24
Hello Matt,
>I need to know when im 18, if i can see my doctor, nuerologist, and therpist, alone
Yes, I'm sure you would be able to see them alone because you would be legally an adult and your mother would not be able to control your treatment.
Have you asked your current psychiatrist whether you can see him alone?
Ed.
Posted by TamaraJ on February 26, 2005, at 13:28:28
In reply to How do i get away from my mom/ medical issues.., posted by mmcconathy on February 25, 2005, at 19:51:24
Matthew,
Have you tried talking to a school counsellor to get some advice on what options are available to you now as a minor. The other option is (but this may be drastic) going to your local DCF (I think that's what it's called in the U.S. - Department of Children and Families) and talk to a social worker about your situation. It sounds like a terrible situation you are in, and the option of living with your real dad sounds equally negative and detrimental. Is there another relative you could go live with (an aunt, uncle, cousin you trust)? One thing you really need to keep in mind is that you do not want to end up in a situation where you don't have health insurance and access to health care. I am sorry you are having to go through this. My thoughts are with you.
Tamara
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