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Posted by allisonross on November 4, 2005, at 10:54:21
LOL, gotcha, eh? Actually, this has happened to me a few times. After a particularly fireworks, earth mover, ground shaking orgasm, I've lost my hearing in my left ear (huh?) for a few minutes.
Actually found an article about this on the net. It's kinda like blowing out the engine in your car!! LOL, LOL
The irony is that now (after divorce and being ahhh....(this is the squeamish about sex words, little New England girl talking here, LOL) without ANY, it is a REAL huge problem.
Married for 31 years, and sex was the ONLY good thing (actually, fantastic thing); got the divorce and been alone now. This (sex) is the ONE thing I have a problem with.
yes, I use a (ahhh) device thing, but I need the whole experience; a man. An orgasm alone, is not even close to being what I need.
My gurlfriends all joke and tease me about just goin out and gettin some guy, but I am the romantic type; that just leaves me cold (at least for now, LOL).
This has even caused physical problems. My t wants to know how long I can go along like this; I said:
Hmmmm. about 2 and a half minutes more!!
Hey, I am 59, but people guess my age at 40 (good genes), hip length hair, gorgeous legs and a voluptous little 5 feet, 2 and a half inch boooody! LOL, LOL
...and here I am, waiting for my Prince to ahhhh....you know what.......actually, waiting for me to find the Prince and ahhhh....you know! LOL, LOL
www.churchabusepoetrytherapy.com (my website, after being voted out of a 31 year membership
My name up on a big screen in front of the church, followed by the words: CONDUCT UNBECOMING A CHILD OF GOD. Called to a meeting of deacons (17 "men"), not allowed to have a woman with me, and asked "are you still having sex with your ex?" I was, LOL!
Amazed to be published on an on-line psychiatric journal: www.psychiatricjournal.com
Story: The Transcendent Child on Overcoming Verbal and Spiritual Abuse
Well, anyone else had hearing loss due to a blow-out? LOl, LOL
i have to go hose myself down now; be back in awhile, LOL, LOL
If you go into my churchabuse website, under "About Me" you can see my picture.
I will be giving out autographs later on ...that picture was taken when i was having sex a lot, and was always glowing, LOL, LOL
Signed, unbelievably frustrated, and wondering how long I can take it, until I just grab some guy off the street, never thought this would be a problem!
Ally!
Posted by Tamar on November 4, 2005, at 17:48:25
In reply to Hearing Loss After Orgasm: Trigger Sex Stuff, posted by allisonross on November 4, 2005, at 10:54:21
I’ve never heard of this before, but it sounds as if it could be caused by pressure differences in your inner ear during orgasm.
Did it happen while you were still married? Or has it emerged since your divorce? (I’m being a bit delicate here, which carries a risk of being misunderstood: what I really mean is: does it only happen during solo sex? You don’t have to answer! But I wondered whether you’re experiencing more intense orgasms; that might contribute to the symptoms.)
> My gurlfriends all joke and tease me about just goin out and gettin some guy, but I am the romantic type; that just leaves me cold (at least for now, LOL).
Well, finding some random guy might not lead to orgasms… it can depend on the man! And some people need to feel connected or loved in order to find sexual satisfaction.
> This has even caused physical problems. My t wants to know how long I can go along like this; I said:
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> Hmmmm. about 2 and a half minutes more!!Ha ha ha!
> Hey, I am 59, but people guess my age at 40 (good genes), hip length hair, gorgeous legs and a voluptous little 5 feet, 2 and a half inch boooody! LOL, LOL
I don’t know whether age has anything to do with the hearing loss thing. It’s possible. Even if you look young for your age, your body is still 59, so if age could be a factor in this it’s worth looking into.
Anyway, I reckon that it might be worth asking your GP (although I can understand you might feel a bit embarrassed), just to be on the safe side. It’s probably nothing dangerous but it might be worth investigating…
As for the frustration… I’m sure it’s hard to handle. If you like erotic stories it might help a bit… I think many women find porn too male-oriented (or ideologically offensive) and movie erotica is often disappointing… But a few good stories and a couple of good fantasies will go a long way. You obviously like to write; have you thought about writing your own erotic fiction?
Tamar
Posted by allisonross on November 4, 2005, at 18:17:23
In reply to Re: Hearing Loss After Orgasm: Trigger Sex Stuff » allisonross, posted by Tamar on November 4, 2005, at 17:48:25
> Hey, Tamar!
I’ve never heard of this before, but it sounds as if it could be caused by pressure differences in your inner ear during orgasm.
Yup, the whole technical description is on a website. I was amazed; didn't think I'd find the answer!
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> Did it happen while you were still married?Yes.
Or has it emerged since your divorce?
Hasn't happened since the divorce.
(I’m being a bit delicate here, which carries a risk of being misunderstood: what I really mean is: does it only happen during solo sex?
Only happened with my ex.
You don’t have to answer!
No problem; you can ask me anything.
But I wondered whether you’re experiencing more intense orgasms; that might contribute to the symptoms.)
Nahhh, LOL!
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> > My gurlfriends all joke and tease me about just goin out and gettin some guy, but I am the romantic type; that just leaves me cold (at least for now, LOL).
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> Well, finding some random guy might not lead to orgasms… it can depend on the man! And some people need to feel connected or loved in order to find sexual satisfaction.Actually, any man would do (how IN-delicate of me), because we are all responsible for our own ahhh, orgasms. When I told my T I ALWAYS have an orgasm, he just said: "Do you know how blessed you are?!" Answer: Yes! LOL
I find sexual satisfaction (well always have an orgasm,) let's say, with my reasonable facsimile.
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> > This has even caused physical problems. My t wants to know how long I can go along like this; I said:
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> > Hmmmm. about 2 and a half minutes more!!
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> Ha ha ha!
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> > Hey, I am 59, but people guess my age at 40 (good genes), hip length hair, gorgeous legs and a voluptous little 5 feet, 2 and a half inch boooody! LOL, LOL
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> I don’t know whether age has anything to do with the hearing loss thing.No. It's a physiological thing.
It’s possible. Even if you look young for your age, your body is still 59, so if age could be a factor in this it’s worth looking into.
Nahh (LOL); I didn't really care about anything really detailed, I was just SO curious!
Actually, when I had the test at the gym, my physiological age is approximately 39-40!
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> Anyway, I reckon that it might be worth asking your GP (although I can understand you might feel a bit embarrassed), just to be on the safe side.It didn't happen too often, and I would ask, but it's not that serious (LOL, LOL)
It’s probably nothing dangerous but it might be worth investigating…
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> As for the frustration… I’m sure it’s hard to handle. If you like erotic stories it might help a bit…That would make it worse! I don't need anything to remind me of what I don't have. I wonder why people think cold showers help, LOL
I think many women find porn too male-oriented (or ideologically offensive) and movie erotica is often disappointing… But a few good stories and a couple of good fantasies will go a long way. You obviously like to write; have you thought about writing your own erotic fiction?
Hmmm, that's a thought, but ONLY after I am in love or a relationship. That would be more torture! LOL
Hugs, Ally
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> Tamar
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