Psycho-Babble Relationships Thread 585084

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Female perspective needed ....

Posted by Jimmyboy on December 3, 2005, at 16:33:49

I was involved in a very tumultous 4 year relationshipi with a woman.. It was lawys up and down , not real healthy at all. She was always wanting to get married . settle down, but I wasn't ready yet. We actually broke up a few times ( always me doing it) but we would always get back together. This summer I had a to move away for a few months and during that time I really missed her and we talked all of the time and I had made the decision I was really going to change for the better and that I would do what ever it took to keep her happy and make ot work.

Meanwhile, as soon as I got back and was really excited to see her, I could tell something had changed. Well, within a week she has dumped me and never wnats to talk to me again. As far as I know there is no one else she is seeing/ I am confused .. yeah it was not the most healthy relationship , but as soon as I committed to give her what she always wanted from me.. she is gone and could care less if I existed. Wow, what a strange week. ...

 

Re: Female perspective needed ....

Posted by allisonross on December 4, 2005, at 6:59:11

In reply to Female perspective needed ...., posted by Jimmyboy on December 3, 2005, at 16:33:49

Hi, Jimmy: Well, unfortunately, there is no way to really know why she did what she did.

SHE is the only one who has the answer to that question. If it is really eating you, you could always write her a letter and ask some questions.

She may, or may not be honest with you.

Sorry that this happened!

Grins, Ally


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