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Posted by rjlockhart on March 14, 2006, at 1:02:56
My mom and grandma are just my mom said to her "you going to die, there a time to live and there is time to die, so just be quiet and get in the danm bed and stop saying your going to die, im sick of it"
My grandma called her a bitch then she said "bitch? your the bitch i grew up with and had to listen to your verbal abuse for years miss lady, whats the matter? ill tell you whats a matter I go out my way for you, i do everything to try make you happy i feed, i cloth, i wash, and what things to i get, oh sorry carol i forgot your where the maid"
My mom will on MANIAC terrors i cant tell you, she has distorted views of things and get it twisted up and accuse you of stuff, she will go NUTS! she will say (when she gets like this) pills pills pills doctors....... i CANT TAKE IT!! EAAAAAAAAAA puts her hands in her face, and starts crying.
God someone, its not happening right now, and i dont want to say i dont love my mom, she can be nice, but there is times where she is just i cant take it. And i dont want to put any false accusations on her. And i have all this other family issues to deal with, i havent seen my dad, god he is going to chew me out.
Cross your fingers, and pray because i am going to make it, one way or the other.
Matt
Posted by Phillipa on March 14, 2006, at 1:02:57
In reply to I am in a toxic envoriement, posted by rjlockhart on March 13, 2006, at 22:06:22
Matt you need to get out of your enviorment now. Love Mom2
Posted by Emily Elizabeth on March 14, 2006, at 1:02:57
In reply to I am in a toxic envoriement, posted by rjlockhart on March 13, 2006, at 22:06:22
Matt, I think that it is essential that you work with your therapist to make YOUR life feel managable. Why don't you post on the psychology board and ask for suggestions on how to ask your therapist for help, what questions to ask, what he might be able to do, etc.? Different people read different pbabble boards. You might get some new ideas.
Best,
EE
Posted by TexasChic on March 22, 2006, at 18:49:37
In reply to I am in a toxic envoriement, posted by rjlockhart on March 13, 2006, at 22:06:22
I totally understand Matt. My family is pretty crazy too. It is important for you to get out as soon as you can, because the longer you stay the more damage it will do to you emotionly and the harder it will be to leave.
Don't let your family manipulate you by making you feel bad about wanting to live your own life and be happy. You deserve happiness.
Try to take it one step at a time. Are you going to go to college? Do you have a job? Do you have relatives that would let you live with them? Once you get away you'll be able to look at things more clearly, which will help you learn how to better deal with you Mom.
Hang in there and let us know how you're doing.
-T
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