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Posted by alesta on May 4, 2006, at 12:20:56
hey y'all..
i didn't sleep a wink last night so this post may have a strange feel to it...nevermind that please
i realized yesterday that i no longer love my bf..i found out something else horrible that he did yesterday (no he didn't sleep with anyone) and i am so *done*. but he doesn't know that yet...
he is still going to go in the military (turns out he lied to me concerning the reason why he cannot go in yet--turns out the b*stard failed a piss test! the document somehow ended up in my bag...strange (every time he does something wrong i end up accidentally discovering it lol..synchronicity perhaps...anyway, he lied, again!! (he'd told me some really warply worded story about needing more college credits and too many waivers or some b**sh*t.)
anyways, i am sad about last night, but not *too* sad. he keeps saying he wants me to marry him before he goes in the military...no way. i need to become strong in several different facets so i can leave. i didn't sleep at all last night, like i said...i am so stressed out. and i am talking to another guy and not sure where that will lead. i need to stabilize my life....right now i feel like i'm standing on the edge of a cliff. i don't know anymore. i'm scared about a lot of things all of a sudden. even though i don't love my bf, i am scared to live alone...i think. i just don't know. i would go home and get some sleep but he is there and i don't want to deal with him. i feel like i need to talk to someone here. is anyone here?
thank you,:-)
amy
Posted by Larry Hoover on May 4, 2006, at 13:59:33
In reply to my relationship, my life...edge of cliff feeling.., posted by alesta on May 4, 2006, at 12:20:56
I'm sorry your bf is such a cad. I'm sorry your life is upsideways. All will be well. All will be well, in the end. If it isn't well, it isn't the end. All will be well.
Lar
Posted by alesta on May 4, 2006, at 15:27:45
In reply to {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{amy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} » alesta, posted by Larry Hoover on May 4, 2006, at 13:59:33
so nice to see you lad! that hug was the best. (and yes, he is a bloody cad!)
amy:)
p.s. the cliff doesn't feel quite as precipitous now...seriously, thanks man.:)
Posted by ClearSkies on May 5, 2006, at 12:25:20
In reply to thanks larry very, very much! :) » Larry Hoover, posted by alesta on May 4, 2006, at 15:27:45
Oy, they are so smart! I was married to one for 18 years. Couldn't speak the truth if his marriage depended upon it.
(pats hand) You're better off, honey. So wise to have your eyes opened now and not later.luv ya
ClearSKies
Posted by alesta on May 8, 2006, at 12:25:23
In reply to Cads » alesta, posted by ClearSkies on May 5, 2006, at 12:25:20
> Oy, they are so smart! I was married to one for 18 years. Couldn't speak the truth if his marriage depended upon it.
> (pats hand) You're better off, honey. So wise to have your eyes opened now and not later.
>
> luv ya
> ClearSKies
thanks...that was sweet...preciate it cs..!:-)although he really never did cheat on me...maybe i'm the cad :(
oy....
alesata
Posted by ClearSkies on May 16, 2006, at 19:48:13
In reply to Re: Cads » ClearSkies, posted by alesta on May 8, 2006, at 12:25:23
My ex husband never cheated on me. Betrayal takes many forms - and he found them all or made up new ones. Calling him a cad is really being generous.
Ouch. It still hurts.
Posted by llrrrpp on May 28, 2006, at 17:04:17
In reply to my relationship, my life...edge of cliff feeling.., posted by alesta on May 4, 2006, at 12:20:56
Hi Amy,
I don't know how this story ends, I just want to let you know that if your b/f marries you, and he's in the military, his pay increases dramatically. Having "dependents" increases his housing allowance a LOT, and this part of income is not taxed. Just a thought.I hope everything works out for you.
-ll
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